autasha replied to your post “autasha replied to your post:i am magnificently bad at telling if…”
o yeah i feel this feel (i can’t call my toxic ex abusive regardless of what happened because in my head that means i am actually an abuser)
this is your daily reminder to not forget about ferguson. Keep it going!
(same mmmmmrghhhhh but, tbh, i dont think this. makes u a terrible judge of character i think its an abuse tactic)
my brain always goes and tells me it’s an abuse tactic > therefore since i always get got im going to start abusing people sooner or later, if im not doing it now
im having a lot of bad feels and really oughta go to sleep now theyve calmed for a second
i am magnificently bad at telling if someone is abusive lol
this is at least the third time i have been honestly so devoted to some popular user and they’ve turned out to be abusive or racist or something and i am probably just gonna do it again becaus!! i am a terrible judge of character
i should prolly…… start a new gender stuff tag…
also rlly bad feels wrt trusting people on the internet who have large followings
yo here’s hopefully some help:
A lot of ppl I interact with have said that like, woah this person is bad! She helped influence me figuring out my gender! What do I do!!
Here’s my suggestion: it’s pretty much whatever the fuck you want to. you are still allowed agency over and the ability to question your gender. chances are, you couldn’t have been fucked with by that person if you weren’t already in a vulnerable person w/r/t your gender to begin with. A lot of forms of manipulation start with salient points of knowledge being twisted off elsewhere along the way.
if you think you are better off in your current gender than you were six months or a year ago: that’s yours. keep it. you will always own the fuck outta your gender, not some weirdo who wants to groom you or tell you how to think or what to feel.